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How to Tell if a Man Wants You for a Lifetime or Only for the Moment Men don’t really have “commitment issues.” At least, not in the way most women think men do. When a man tells you he has “commitment issues”, there’s a good chance that what he REALLY means is he’s not that interested in you and is just using you to pass time with until he meets someone "better." When How to Tell if a Man Wants You for a Lifetime or Only for the Moment Men don’t really have “commitment issues.” At least, not in the way most women think men do. When a man tells you he has “commitment issues”, there’s a good chance that what he REALLY means is he’s not that interested in you and is just using you to pass time with until he meets someone "better." When a man isn’t interested in a relationship with you, his “commitment issues” are nothing more than an excuse to waste your time and reap the benefits of your decision to stay with him in order to “see where this thing goes.” It’s at this point where many women make one of the worse dating decisions possible, as they choose to remain with a half-interested man, hoping that over time they’ll be able to “lull” him into a serious commitment. The Biggest Reason Why Men Pull Away and Suddenly Lose Interest Women often wonder why men pull away and lose interest in a blossoming romance without so much as a warning. Though there could be a ton of reasons why a man might pull away, the most common reason for his loss of interest is this: he wasn’t THAT interested in you to begin with. In general, even though men are more than able to commit to a woman once certain conditions in their life are met, they will not directly inform you when you’re not the right girl for them or that now isn’t the right time for them to take a woman seriously. And because men are far more opportunistic when it comes to dating, a lot of guys won’t hesitate to take advantage of a dating situation that reaps high rewards (good for him) with as little effort possible (bad for you). How to Avoid Dating Men Who Will Keep You Unloved and Perpetually Unclaimed No matter which way you look at it, even though men don’t really have commitment issues, they don’t find it necessary or in their best interest to inform a woman when she’s nothing more than a beautiful distraction, a way to earn the respect of his peers, or just a target to sharpen his seduction skills so that he’ll be primed and ready when a “better” woman comes along. This is the ugly truth, but there’s hope. In this book, you’ll get an inside look at how a man thinks and interacts with a woman when he’s not that interested in her. This sort of male behavior is actually easy to spot IF you know what to look for. It’s extremely difficult for a man to waste your time and treat you like a short-term plaything without exhibiting certain unmistakable behaviors that clearly communicate that he’s trying to keep you interested…but unclaimed. Here's what you're going to learn inside: The seductive language men use when they want to discourage you from wanting a COMMITTED relationship. How quickly learning this ONE thing about him can tell you if he’s “unequipped” to handle a serious relationship. The pattern in a man’s dating history that IMMEDIATELY reveals if he’s a commitment-phobic time waster. How to avoid being confused by men who might love you tenderly, but would NEVER make you their girlfriend. How to stop losing sleep wondering “DOES HE LIKE ME?” and get him to either take you seriously or take a hike! How observing this simple behavior reveals if he thinks you’re “TH


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How to Tell if a Man Wants You for a Lifetime or Only for the Moment Men don’t really have “commitment issues.” At least, not in the way most women think men do. When a man tells you he has “commitment issues”, there’s a good chance that what he REALLY means is he’s not that interested in you and is just using you to pass time with until he meets someone "better." When How to Tell if a Man Wants You for a Lifetime or Only for the Moment Men don’t really have “commitment issues.” At least, not in the way most women think men do. When a man tells you he has “commitment issues”, there’s a good chance that what he REALLY means is he’s not that interested in you and is just using you to pass time with until he meets someone "better." When a man isn’t interested in a relationship with you, his “commitment issues” are nothing more than an excuse to waste your time and reap the benefits of your decision to stay with him in order to “see where this thing goes.” It’s at this point where many women make one of the worse dating decisions possible, as they choose to remain with a half-interested man, hoping that over time they’ll be able to “lull” him into a serious commitment. The Biggest Reason Why Men Pull Away and Suddenly Lose Interest Women often wonder why men pull away and lose interest in a blossoming romance without so much as a warning. Though there could be a ton of reasons why a man might pull away, the most common reason for his loss of interest is this: he wasn’t THAT interested in you to begin with. In general, even though men are more than able to commit to a woman once certain conditions in their life are met, they will not directly inform you when you’re not the right girl for them or that now isn’t the right time for them to take a woman seriously. And because men are far more opportunistic when it comes to dating, a lot of guys won’t hesitate to take advantage of a dating situation that reaps high rewards (good for him) with as little effort possible (bad for you). How to Avoid Dating Men Who Will Keep You Unloved and Perpetually Unclaimed No matter which way you look at it, even though men don’t really have commitment issues, they don’t find it necessary or in their best interest to inform a woman when she’s nothing more than a beautiful distraction, a way to earn the respect of his peers, or just a target to sharpen his seduction skills so that he’ll be primed and ready when a “better” woman comes along. This is the ugly truth, but there’s hope. In this book, you’ll get an inside look at how a man thinks and interacts with a woman when he’s not that interested in her. This sort of male behavior is actually easy to spot IF you know what to look for. It’s extremely difficult for a man to waste your time and treat you like a short-term plaything without exhibiting certain unmistakable behaviors that clearly communicate that he’s trying to keep you interested…but unclaimed. Here's what you're going to learn inside: The seductive language men use when they want to discourage you from wanting a COMMITTED relationship. How quickly learning this ONE thing about him can tell you if he’s “unequipped” to handle a serious relationship. The pattern in a man’s dating history that IMMEDIATELY reveals if he’s a commitment-phobic time waster. How to avoid being confused by men who might love you tenderly, but would NEVER make you their girlfriend. How to stop losing sleep wondering “DOES HE LIKE ME?” and get him to either take you seriously or take a hike! How observing this simple behavior reveals if he thinks you’re “TH

30 review for He's Not That Interested, He's Just Passing Time: 40 Unmistakable Behaviors Of Men Who Avoid Commitment And Play Games With Women

  1. 4 out of 5

    Meg

    Do not pass go. Do not waste your time on this book. Pass it straight up for 'He's Just Not That Into You,' which is a five-star read. Or, if you're into having an author MAN-SPLAIN to you for nearly three hours, repeating his statements twice CONSTANTLY because you must not be listening, you might actually enjoy this. Also I don't need a dude named Bruce to tell me that a guy avoiding eye contact is a red flag. Good grief, what a trash book. (I'm a librarian, I don't use those words lightly.) Do not pass go. Do not waste your time on this book. Pass it straight up for 'He's Just Not That Into You,' which is a five-star read. Or, if you're into having an author MAN-SPLAIN to you for nearly three hours, repeating his statements twice CONSTANTLY because you must not be listening, you might actually enjoy this. Also I don't need a dude named Bruce to tell me that a guy avoiding eye contact is a red flag. Good grief, what a trash book. (I'm a librarian, I don't use those words lightly.)

  2. 4 out of 5

    Ashley

    Being in the dating world and navigating it can be pretty tricky. I wanted to have the know how in order to not deal with crappy situationships and dud dates and this book really helped. It breaks down the inner thought process behind manipulative or unknowingly indecisive guys and makes it a lot easier to recognize this behavior early on so as to not get caught up. I have an insane story that spans over a month regarding a really shady guy and this book felt like it was written for me, I really Being in the dating world and navigating it can be pretty tricky. I wanted to have the know how in order to not deal with crappy situationships and dud dates and this book really helped. It breaks down the inner thought process behind manipulative or unknowingly indecisive guys and makes it a lot easier to recognize this behavior early on so as to not get caught up. I have an insane story that spans over a month regarding a really shady guy and this book felt like it was written for me, I really appreciated how it took a tough love approach and helped me to see that if I had wasted anymore time, I would have been played like a fiddle. PHEW. On to the next book!

  3. 5 out of 5

    Sharon

    Straight talk on men. This book guided me into ending a relationship and I am thankful for the wisdom it provided. Several passages were so important that I will refer back to them in future relationships.

  4. 5 out of 5

    euphoria

    I don't usually read such books but i absolutely loved this one, i needed to read these words especially these days and I'm really grateful i gave it a chance because it's one of my favourites now I don't usually read such books but i absolutely loved this one, i needed to read these words especially these days and I'm really grateful i gave it a chance because it's one of my favourites now

  5. 4 out of 5

    Sophie Kim

    Please stop playing games with me nathanial. Now that I read this book via the audible sound waves I am impermeable towards evil men magic. (TLDR if you read this book he doesn’t like you Bethany)

  6. 5 out of 5

    Erin

    A LOT of gendering or behaviors here, which annoyed me to no end. A lot of red flag behaviors seem like common sense, but as someone who has gone through shitty relationships, it was helpful to hear it flat out.

  7. 5 out of 5

    kiara durham

    Excellent Read My first time reading a relationship advice book and it was sooooo helpful . I will definitely be reading more titles by this author

  8. 5 out of 5

    Kassi

    I bought this book because, as a counselor, I work with a lot of women who have experienced mistreatment by the men in their life and need a bit of "tough love" at times to start undoing the behaviours that encourage or at least don't DIScourage the men in their lives from treating them as less than their worth. This book wasn't "bad" - it is honest, offers sound advice, and the unmistakable behaviours are obvious - but the problem I had with it is that it was scattered with links to self-promote I bought this book because, as a counselor, I work with a lot of women who have experienced mistreatment by the men in their life and need a bit of "tough love" at times to start undoing the behaviours that encourage or at least don't DIScourage the men in their lives from treating them as less than their worth. This book wasn't "bad" - it is honest, offers sound advice, and the unmistakable behaviours are obvious - but the problem I had with it is that it was scattered with links to self-promote other works and there wasn't anything "new" for me. So, consider this: I'm already partnered for life, so I'm not the target audience here. And two, I've invested quite a bit of time attempting to find new ways to help my clients change their habits and beliefs about low quality men. If you are just starting out with trying to figure out the whole relationship puzzle and how to spot the "wrong" man and haven't read too much into the material out there, this will be very helpful. If you have already read several books about how to identify signs that a man isn't interested, then I really doubt you'll learn anything new from this book.

  9. 5 out of 5

    Catherine Flynn

    I was browsing through my Kindle when I stumble upon this ebook. Got my attention since I think I'd be out on a dating scene maybe sometime next year, who knows so I thought I'd give it a shot. Finished this ebook roughly in 2 hours!! I cannot put it down! Truthfully this book is more of a common sense type but you know women are typical dictated by their emotions once they start to fall for someone and tend to lose control, and hate to admit it but, we surely can be stupid. And men do obviously I was browsing through my Kindle when I stumble upon this ebook. Got my attention since I think I'd be out on a dating scene maybe sometime next year, who knows so I thought I'd give it a shot. Finished this ebook roughly in 2 hours!! I cannot put it down! Truthfully this book is more of a common sense type but you know women are typical dictated by their emotions once they start to fall for someone and tend to lose control, and hate to admit it but, we surely can be stupid. And men do obviously know how to take advantage of that. Of course they won't tell but that's the ugly truth (to some men). Women who rated this 3-stars below must be really good catching these men time wasters and don't fall hard for them (atleast to the ones they really like and I mean it in a sarcastic way), 'cause I honestly think this is just the book every single and/or dating woman should read! Anyways, I cannot express the love for this book as I like how the author appreciate and value women. It's totally worth reading and some need our head get some good knocking.

  10. 4 out of 5

    Diana

    As I said in my other reviews of Bruce Bryans's books, I absolutely loved each and every title. I listed to 7 of his books on Audible and I believe I now have a better grasp of the dating life. I've been in a super long relationsip that ate all my 20s and now I'm in my early 30s faced with the dating life that I never had to deal with as I started going out with my ex when I was 16. I have a clear tendency of seeing the good in people and due to my lack of experience in dating, I sometimes tend t As I said in my other reviews of Bruce Bryans's books, I absolutely loved each and every title. I listed to 7 of his books on Audible and I believe I now have a better grasp of the dating life. I've been in a super long relationsip that ate all my 20s and now I'm in my early 30s faced with the dating life that I never had to deal with as I started going out with my ex when I was 16. I have a clear tendency of seeing the good in people and due to my lack of experience in dating, I sometimes tend to get overly excited about men who don't deserve it. All Bruce Bryans's books are mind revealing and they open your eyes in a way no friend or family could.

  11. 4 out of 5

    Nycole

    Some Valid Points A lot of common sense stuff but also some other items that were explained further as to why some guys behave the way they do. I found this helpful as I was frustrated how my recent ex couldn’t see his own behaviors (had about 10 off the list) so I was reassured of my intuition after reading this book. I was like WOW OMG that is him to the T....really confirmed what I was thinking. It’s hard to generalize the whole population but I think the author did a fair job in trying to exp Some Valid Points A lot of common sense stuff but also some other items that were explained further as to why some guys behave the way they do. I found this helpful as I was frustrated how my recent ex couldn’t see his own behaviors (had about 10 off the list) so I was reassured of my intuition after reading this book. I was like WOW OMG that is him to the T....really confirmed what I was thinking. It’s hard to generalize the whole population but I think the author did a fair job in trying to explain the type of guys/girls he was writing about.

  12. 5 out of 5

    Ramona Powell

    Excellent read I started reading this book out of curiosity and to kick start my reading for the new year. However, i realized how sound his writing is, i can relate and identify with so much of what is written. This is a good read even for those in a stable relationship. I found it to bring clarity and explained a lot of behaviors that I’ve seen in previous relationships. Awesome!

  13. 5 out of 5

    Venis T.

    Great read, will read again! I am at the end of a divorce and am back in the dating game. It's helpful to have a reputable source for male advice. I've encountered many of these men already... and now I've been warned of the rest. I'm hopeful to find a high-value man as I commit to behaving as a high-value woman. Great read, will read again! I am at the end of a divorce and am back in the dating game. It's helpful to have a reputable source for male advice. I've encountered many of these men already... and now I've been warned of the rest. I'm hopeful to find a high-value man as I commit to behaving as a high-value woman.

  14. 4 out of 5

    Lisa

    Great and concise read Bruce Bryans breaks it down in an easy to understand step by step format. This book should help anyone interested in better long term relationships that matter. There is something for everyone here and you can examine past mistakes to be a better you going forward with dignity.

  15. 4 out of 5

    June Quintin

    This book was downloaded to my Kindle accidentally. The author is a straight shooter. His tips are spot on. The chapters tell what to look for and how not to waste time on men unworthy of your love. I believe women searching for genuine men could benefit from the information within this book.

  16. 4 out of 5

    Kimberly Foley

    Great Read This book is for any woman who needs a little push to understand things about men. I enjoyed it and it made me look at things men do in a different light so I will be doing things differently in the future.

  17. 5 out of 5

    Janelle

    It's an okay read. Expected a little more for the price. It repeated things we already know as women and didn't teach me anything new. I would have given it a 2 but you can still tell there was effort put into it so I gave it a 3. It's an okay read. Expected a little more for the price. It repeated things we already know as women and didn't teach me anything new. I would have given it a 2 but you can still tell there was effort put into it so I gave it a 3.

  18. 5 out of 5

    Silvia Sherman

    Excellent Right on point with so many things I have noticed with men I have dated. This book is excellent for women like me that are starting to get out in the dating world and weed out the time wasters. Awesome read!

  19. 5 out of 5

    Robin

    Great book if you are in the dating game. I try to read a few to better myself on dating and relationships and this book is packed with details of distinguishing those traits of "time wasters" and what to do about them. Enlighting and it's good to hear from a male perspective behaviors. Great book if you are in the dating game. I try to read a few to better myself on dating and relationships and this book is packed with details of distinguishing those traits of "time wasters" and what to do about them. Enlighting and it's good to hear from a male perspective behaviors.

  20. 4 out of 5

    Janice Morgan

    Very insightful This book hit on a lot of topics that I'm dealing with at the moment, a recent divorce that is afraid of getting into a relationship, but wants to see what else/or who else is out there. Very insightful This book hit on a lot of topics that I'm dealing with at the moment, a recent divorce that is afraid of getting into a relationship, but wants to see what else/or who else is out there.

  21. 4 out of 5

    nicole

    Easy to understand I really enjoyed this book for it was all about the points I’ve questioned from my ex and his narcissistic behaviors and explained what I needed to know to dismiss the fools and move forward with my life finally!

  22. 4 out of 5

    Maureen

    If you are in the dating scene, you should read this book. We justify their actions so much but we have to be real with ourselves. This book helped me check myself & my actions & everything that I have tolerated. Great book, thanks Bruce!

  23. 5 out of 5

    Krystal Gayle

    Book for young single women It was a good book. Most of these things are pretty obvious if you have dated but it's nice to see the male perspective Book for young single women It was a good book. Most of these things are pretty obvious if you have dated but it's nice to see the male perspective

  24. 4 out of 5

    mati chi

    Dating advice Common sense but he worded it differently. I really enjoyed reading this book and will purchase others like this. G

  25. 5 out of 5

    Simone

    Excellent This was a great book! Thank you! I really enjoyed! This book was really a eye opening! Very easy to follow! A Must read! one I will read again

  26. 4 out of 5

    Ava Daneva

    A great book I’ve read it twice already. I’m very happy I found this and many others of Bryce’s books. Really helpful, highly recommend them all.

  27. 4 out of 5

    Lizzy

    Sometimes we know the signs but it always helpful to be validated. This book presents a lot of things to consider for all young ladies ready to have a real/long lasting relationship with a man.

  28. 5 out of 5

    Zaskerpie

    This book was super fast to read and extremely straight to the point. It provides concrete examples of when X behavior is a yikes.

  29. 4 out of 5

    Lia

    This book was so helpful and just what I needed.

  30. 5 out of 5

    Kiesha Mapson

    To the point Insightful, easy read. This book is too the point and is helpful in setting boundaries and knowing your self worth.

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